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Jesus is the vine, we are the branches

In my last post, I mentioned that at Kids’ Club we played a game of matching different fruits to the branches and leaves of the plants or trees that they came from, and introduced the idea of bearing fruit. I explained to the children that the fruit we bear are the qualities we show, and that Jesus said people recognise what kind of “tree” we are when they see what kind of fruit we bear, because a good tree bears good fruit.

I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit.”

Following up from that last session, we looked at how we bear good fruit. I recapitulated on the topic of the fruit of the Holy Spirit, and explained that it’s rather difficult to constantly keep in mind all of the good qualities or the good fruit we want to be producing – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. So I showed the children a picture of a grape vine with grapes hanging from its branches, and reasoned that the fruits don’t actively think, “Hmm… I’m going to be grapes. I must grow, and I must grow to be grapes.” It all happens naturally as the grapes grow from the branches, just as the branches grow from the main vine. This is what Jesus said, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit.”

Some children thought it was a strange thing to say, so I asked them if they have ever seen hedges being cut. Living in this part of the country in our rural village, we often see tractors on the side of the roads cutting hedges, and the children can relate to that.

“What happens to the branches that are cut? Do they still grow?”

“No! They shrivel up and die!”

They all grasped the idea that we need to be connected to Jesus in order to grow and produce good fruit. A simple lesson, but one that can easily be remembered.

Our activity that followed hopefully reinforced what we talked about. I asked the children to colour in a bunch of grapes, then cut out the words of the fruits of the Holy Spirit and stick them on those grapes. Once completed, the children then brought their artwork to be put up on the big grape vine on the wall in exchange for a reward (it always focuses their efforts if there is promise of a reward!). If you would like to download a copy of the colouring page, please click here.

The attached photo  shows the finished product, and the kids were very proud to show it off to their parents when they came to pick them up at the end of the session!

KC vine and branches

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The Kingdom of God belongs to such as these…

Welcome to our new Kids’ Club website!

I started this blog mainly, but not exclusively, for parents, grandparents, siblings and carers of the children who come to our Kids’ Club sessions. I hope that all the children who come would agree that they enjoy our time together – they sure seem to be very  enthusiastic! Sometimes in all the excitement I forget or don’t have time to get across some ideas that I have prepared, or some thoughts might take a bit more time to digest. So the hope is that, if I can put our messages on a blog, then any kids or their parents or carers who are interested can find out what we did in the sessions and what it’s all about, together with some further food for thought.

I hope that you, or anyone who might stumble upon our site, would get as much out of it as I do, because it gives me and all our Kids’ Club leaders great joy when we do these sessions. It isn’t easy with our limited energy and resources, but it is always a privilege to engage with our children. We learn a lot from them and from preparing for the sessions, and are reminded of Jesus’ words,

Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.” – Mark 10:14

I hope that you will have a glimpse of this Kingdom of God through our kids too. If you find anything useful here, please feel free to share.

God bless!

Janice, Rev James, Arthur & Rita
Kids’ Club Leaders

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What fruit tree are you?

Sitting here in the autumn sunshine, looking out at the glorious colours the leaves have turned, I realise that I had better share with you what we did at Kids’ Club near the beginning of the school term.  While summer was coming to an end and the leaves were starting to put on their autumnal colours, the children were gathering conkers from underneath the big tree on the corner of the school grounds. The inspiration for a Kids’ Club session came to me and I thought of what Jesus said in the Bible,

“No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bears good fruit. Each tree is recognised by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thorn-bushes, or grapes from briers. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.” – Luke 6:43-45

There’s a lot to think about here, but with the current group of children at Kids’ Club, because of their younger age, it is necessary to keep things simple and to the point. I was trying to find a fun game to engage them. They could all relate to gathering conkers from the school playground, and have come across different fruit. So, in preparation for a quiz, I went foraging for conkers and some big leaves from the conker tree (horse chestnut) with the “help” of our new puppy (who’s occupying a lot of my time and hence the delay in writing posts!). I also went round to the other group leaders Arthur and Rita’s to ask for some twigs and fruit from their fruit trees – apples, pears, and tomatoes. From my own garden, as it’s so overgrown with weeds, I found plenty of brambles with blackberries! I also had some elderberries from the elderflower bush, some blueberries (shop-bought) and a small branch from my blueberry bush.

The game was to inspect the leaves and twigs, guessing what trees they came from and hence match the different fruits to them. When I showed the children the conker tree leaves, many of them immediately knew what tree they came from. Many of them also knew that the thorny bramble produced blackberries, and one girl knew what a tomato plant looked like. Then it became trickier with the apple and pear tree twigs as their leaves were quite similar. It became easier when I brought out the actual fruit and we matched up the rest of the fruit to the leaves or twigs.

The point of this game is to illustrate what Jesus said above, to show that sometimes we don’t know what a tree or plant is, even if we look at the leaves, but if we see the fruit with the plants, then we know whether they are good trees or bad.

Each tree is recognised by its own fruit.fruit of the spirit colouring page

This game led us to introduce the fruit of the Holy Spirit – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. After a brief prayer, we moved onto the next activity, which was to colour in a sheet with fruits which represents these qualities. One can find a variety of colouring pages on the internet, but this is the one I used.

I find that the children easily lose focus if I just talked at them, and they’re not going to remember all 9 fruit of the Holy Spirit, but they absorb more information as they’re doing an activity. And because we’re usually blessed with a high adult to children ratio in our sessions, we sometimes have some meaningful conversations whilst the grown-ups help the kids with their activities. For example,

“What colour are you using for the kiwi fruit?”
“Green!”
“Brown?”
“Greeny-brown then…”
“Ew! I don’t like kiwi fruit.”
“Why?”
“Cos the bits get in your teeth.”
“Well, that’s what it says here – you need patience to get the bits out!”

Let’s hope and pray that some of these truths sink in, take root and grow!

Look out for my next post, as the next Kids’ Club session build on this theme of bearing fruit…

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What does the Ascension mean for us?

Last week at Kids’ Club, Arthur read to the kids from the Children’s Bible about Ascension Day – when Jesus went up to heaven 40 days after Easter Sunday. We usually ask the children to listen carefully because at the end of the story there would be questions, and if they answered correctly there would be a reward (usually involving sweets). You would have thought that the promise of rewards would help the kids concentrate and listen well, but where the enthusiasm was there and they all raised their hands to answer questions, the responses were often pure guess work. Needless to say, they received a lot of hints from the helpers – God forbid that anyone should miss out on a sweet!

This made me think that perhaps as grown-ups we are not any better. You see, when Jesus was with his disciples, he told them what was going to happen – that he was going to be killed and then raised to life, and that he was going away. Right up to the moment that all these things happened, and even a bit afterwards, the disciples hadn’t taken it in. If they heard what Jesus said, they hadn’t processed it. I imagine that the disciples loved being around their Teacher, and they can be forgiven in wanting Jesus to remain with them forever – life was going to be so good when the kingdom of heaven comes. After all, Jesus did teach about the coming kingdom an awful lot. Perhaps much like we dangle the carrot at Kids’ Club with the promise of sweets if correct answers are given, and the children know that they will be rewarded anyway. Who isn’t excited by that thought?

To me, the Ascension speaks of God being a loving and wise parent. Let me explain – Jesus always carried out God the Father’s plans, which reach far beyond the here and now. He wasn’t there only for his disciples whilst he walked on this earth, as he clearly stated that he had “other sheep that are not of this sheep pen”. (John 10:16) Jesus’ ascension meant that God could send the disciples the Holy Spirit, without whom they would not have been empowered to preach the gospel. Like a good parent, Jesus prepared ahead for the time when his followers would have to cope without him being around physically. He said, “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.” (John 14:18) But he also said, “Unless I go away, the Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you.” (John 16:7) .

I admit, if I were one of his disciples listening to Jesus back then, his messages would seem a bit conflicting, and I wouldn’t have been able to understand what he was going on about! The penny hasn’t dropped, as one would say. As a parent myself, I often wish that my own kids would take on board what I have told them countless times, especially the more important life lessons. Sometimes one cannot tell whether they have or not, until the opportune time comes or a certain situation arises. I’d like to think that when I cannot be there for them, whatever their age, somewhere at the back of their minds will surface some useful advice their parents have given them!

You know, it is not a deliberate act of disrespect – they are good kids, just as the Kids’ Club children are good kids; just as the disciples and us followers of Christ are good people – sometimes it just isn’t the right time for us to grasp it yet. One day hopefully we will, but in the meantime, life isn’t all plain sailing, and there will be tough times ahead. It would be reassuring to have someone to guide and comfort us along the way, even to journey with us. This is what God did. Like a loving parent, God prepared a way for us all not to have to deal with it all on our own.

Our prayers are that God will comfort and heal, give us strength and hope, and walk amongst the broken-hearted.

In the account in Acts chapter 1, just after Jesus was taken up into heaven, two angels appeared next to the disciples and said, “Why do you stand here looking into the sky? This same Jesus, who has been taken from you into heaven, will come back in the same way you have seen him go into heaven.” (Acts 1:11) Perhaps it suddenly dawned on the disciples that they had to fend for themselves like bereft children, and perhaps the angels appeared in order to give them a helping hand and point them in the right direction. But I would also like to think that they were there to stand with them for a little while to give them moral support and to remind them of the hope they longed for. Jesus’ ascension isn’t the end. The Holy Spirit will come to comfort and guide them, to give them strength and to remind them of their hope.

This week’s atrocities in Manchester left many people shocked, bereft and deeply affected. However, there have been so many people from around the country and the world who offered support and prayers for the victims’ families, and many of us, like those two angels on Ascension Day, stand with the people of Manchester. Our prayers are that God will comfort and heal, give us strength and hope, and walk amongst the broken-hearted.

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Kids eat dog food!

When I was thinking about what to do for the first Kids’ Club session after the Easter break, several stories in the Bible came to mind. I thought that what follows on from Jesus’ resurrection would be his appearance to his disciples, and I wanted to tell the children about doubting Thomas. As I was churning over in my mind how I might make the short passage in John’s gospel (Chapter 20) more memorable, somewhere in my subconscious surfaced this illustration, and whether it connected the dots for the kids or not, I was determined to use it. It went something like this:

“Hello kids! I’ve not been feeling that well lately, and I thought I should try something new for my diet.” I took out a tin of dog food from my bag and continued, “You know how they always advertise that these branded dog food would give your dog energy and make their coat look shiny and silky. It’s great tasting and full of vitamins… Well, I thought I could do with some of that.”

At this point I opened the tin by pulling on the ring-pull and started scooping up the contents into my mouth. The children gasped and made disgusted noises, even commented that it smelt vile.

“Does anyone want to try some? It’s really nice!” I said.

Rev James jumped at the opportunity and hogged the tin of dog food for a moment, while we distributed spoons amongst the children – they were willing to try some! We took turns to dip the spoon in and proceeded to eat the dog food. Some found it quite appealing, whereas others spat it out straightaway. The point was, they ALL tried it. They tried it not just because I said it was tasty (perhaps more so that Rev James said it was tasty – maybe he has more authority amongst these youngsters!), but they tried it for themselves before deciding whether they liked it or not.

Then I told the children that it isn’t real dog food they had been eating, but chocolate muffin set in orange jelly. It looked convincing enough! (This is how I prepared it: I opened a tin of baked beans from the bottom and substituted the beans with chunks of chocolate muffin set in orange jelly. After it had set in the fridge, I stuck the bottom of the tin back on with sticky tape. Then I carefully removed the dog food label from a tin of dog food and stuck it on the tin containing the chocolate muffin and orange jelly. I found that most brands of dog food had tins with rounded bottoms which normal tin openers fail to open, so it was easier to find a similar sized tin with a lip on the bottom and then exchange labels.)

Linking the dog food tasting to the Bible story, I explained that this is a bit like Thomas not believing that his friends had seen Jesus after he was raised to life. Thomas wasn’t in the room with them and so he said that unless he could see the nail marks in Jesus’ hands and put his finger where the nails were, and put his hand into his side (where the spear had speared Jesus when he was dead), he would not believe. Thomas needed evidence; he needed to see for himself and not believe just because his friends told him so. A bit like the Kids’ Club children wanting to try the dog food for themselves. They were keen to do so, and there was a certain amount of excitement about it.

So I imagine that there would have been a certain amount of excitement and awe on that day when Jesus did appear again to his disciples and Thomas was there this time. That’s why he exclaimed, “My Lord and my God!” He saw for himself and could touch Jesus for himself. I often think that he was very hard done by being branded doubting Thomas. Wouldn’t you and I have the same reaction given the circumstances? The disciples saw with their own eyes that Jesus died on the cross, and the women amongst them saw with their own eyes that he was laid in a tomb. So the kids here this afternoon saw with their own eyes that I opened the tin with the dog food label on, and that I scooped out a spoonful from that tin into my mouth and ate it. I said it was good, so whether they believed me or not, they were willing to give it a go and experience it for themselves.

“Taste and see that the LORD is good.” – Psalm 34:8

OK, some of the kids did not like the chocolate muffin and orange jelly combo, even though we had it on good authority that it tasted great! Hang on a minute, you say. It is not advisable to try absolutely everything before we trust that what we’ve been told is true. For example, we wouldn’t want our children to try taking drugs before they find out for themselves that it’s dangerous, do we? For bad things, we’d like our kids to trust our judgements. But for good things? I hope that all of us would “taste and see that the Lord is good”. We don’t like to just take others’ words for it. I believe that if we are willing to give God a chance, He will come close to us and bless us. My prayer is for you and me to experience that awe and happiness which Thomas had when he encountered the risen Jesus.

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Kids’ Club joins in new craze of Easter Egg Tree

Did you know that the Easter Tree is nothing new? I thought it’s a novel idea, but apparently  it’s a European tradition and our American cousins have had Easter Trees for a while. Anyway, that’s the activity Arthur had prepared for us on the last session of Kids’ Club before school broke up for the Easter holidays, but first of all we had to talk about the Easter story. The children were keen to show off their knowledge, so we had a Q&A time.

It turned out that a fair bit of prompting was needed, so we had a quick recap of Jesus’ death on the cross on Good Friday, and then how on the very first Easter Sunday, Jesus’ disciples and Mary Magdalene went to the tomb only to find his body gone. Two angels told them that Jesus was not there. He had risen from the dead! Much to Mary’s surprise, Jesus himself appeared to her in the garden where the tomb was, and her grief was turned to joy. Jesus also appeared to his disciples later, but that’s for another time. We wanted to focus on Easter Day in the session, and what it means to us.

Sprouted willow cuttingTo help with the explanation, Arthur had brought in a willow “tree” from his garden, or rather, a slender branch he had stuck in a pot of compost last year because it looked dead. He looked after it all winter, and a few weeks ago it showed signs of new life – fresh young green leaves sprouted from the twigs. So he thought it would be very apt to use it to illustrate the message of Easter – that of new life.

New Life

Talk of Easter to anyone and what excites them about it, and people think of Easter eggs, especially the children. So we asked our Kids’ Club children what the eggs have to do with Easter and with new life. At first they couldn’t move past the thought of chocolate eggs…

Easter Egg templatesArthur:   What has an egg got to do with new life?

Children:  Easter eggs!

Arthur:   Yes… what might be inside an egg?

Children:  Chocolate!!!

Arthur:   What new life would you get inside a real egg?

Children:  Chocolate!!!…Er… Chick?

Arthur:  Yes! Little chicks are the new life you get from eggs. The eggs might not look alive, but there can be new life forming inside them. It’s a bit like that on the first Easter Sunday. Everyone knew that Jesus was dead but he came back to life with a new kind of body.

 

Easter Egg Tree
Easter egg tree made by Kids’ Club

I remember taking my own children to local farms when they were little, and we always enjoyed seeing baby animals. We remember the excitement and joy of handling tiny chicks, bunnies and guinea pigs. There is definitely something to celebrate about new life.

So here at this Kids’ Club session, in order to celebrate new life, we made an Easter tree by hanging decorated Easter eggs (coloured-in cards by the children) on the branches of the willow “tree”. The idea was borrowed from an article that Arthur’s wife Rita read in the Woman Alive magazine with templates for the eggs.  The children coloured these in and wrote their names and perhaps a short prayer on the back of the eggs. Then we hung them on the branches using scarlet yarns.

The Easter Egg Tree has only just been catching on over here in the UK and apparently it’s taking over Instagram and Pinterest by storm. More and more shops are selling Easter trees, together with chocolate eggs and myriad food items and decorations. This is turning into Christmas!

And like Christmas, it’s great that everyone is celebrating this important Christian festival, but let’s not forget the real meaning of Easter – that sin, death and decay isn’t the end; that God gives new life – a different kind of life, which was displayed in Jesus when he rose from the dead.

We see this similar but perhaps less powerful life force at work everyday around us, especially in springtime – in the new growth in nature, in the waking up of animals from hibernation. So it stands to reason, perhaps, that the dead-end things in life, the ugly, shameful and, dare we say sinful, things in our lives don’t have to imprison us forever. If we turn these over to Jesus, he who defeated death on a cross, can surely produce new life in us, and bring something new to our situations.

As the children have shown us, just the mere talk of new life, of little chicks (and of course chocolate) and little bunnies, fill us with excitement and positive energy. Perhaps it’s time for us grown-ups to take a leap of faith. Let’s face it, what humans can create new life? We can help the process of growth along, just as gardeners take cuttings of seemingly dead twigs and put them in compost, but we can’t force any roots or shoots to appear by will. Parents help babies and children grow by caring for them, but we don’t understand entirely the mystery of how it all happens. Scientists for centuries have tried to create new life, but still haven’t found any definitive answers.

I say that God is the only one who truly creates new beginnings, new life, new answers to our dead and decaying world. Perhaps this Easter we can let Him do that in our lives. Then we would truly have something to celebrate about.

Have a Happy Easter!

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“Let Go, and Let God” Mothering

To tie in with the Mothering Sunday’s activities, we had to have a story about mothering, or a mother in the Bible. Mary the mother of Jesus obviously came to mind, so did Hannah who prayed earnestly for a baby and Samuel came along, but I decided on Moses’ mother Jochebed again.

The original Moses basket

I read the kids the story of Moses, how he was born at a time where Pharaoh the king of Egypt wasn’t at all well-disposed towards the Israelites. He ordered that all the male babies be thrown into the river Nile and be killed. Moses’ mother clearly didn’t want to do that, but how can you defy the king and get away with it? So she made a basket from reeds, waterproofed it with tar, put it in the river complete with baby Moses. Anything’s better than letting your child be killed, even having to part with your baby, not knowing whether he’ll live or die. But you have to take that chance when you know that keeping him would mean certain death for the baby and perhaps disaster for the rest of your family.

Moses’ sister Miriam hung around by the river to see what would happen. Lo and behold, Pharaoh’s daughter came to bathe, found the baby and wanted to keep him as her own son. Miriam, seeing that the princess showed kindness and compassion towards her brother, suggested to find a nurse to look after him. Miriam ran back to get her mother, so Moses’ mother got to take care of him until he was old enough to be taken to Pharaoh’s daughter to adopt him.

Some interpretations of the story have it that Jochebed Moses’ birth mother had it all planned out, that it was jolly clever of her to send Moses in the basket down the river towards the place where Pharaoh’s daughter was going to bathe. Now I’m not so sure if Jochebed really thought it all out. How could you predict what Pharaoh’s daughter would do? I think that she wasn’t sure at all if she’ll ever see Moses again…

Qualities of a good mother

I asked our group of children what qualities they thought a good mother would have. Some said being kind, caring, giving you things (well, we put that down as “providing for your basic needs”), making yummy food and being nice. These are all very true and valid answers, and we thanked God for our mothers. 

However, thinking of Moses’ mother, what would a good mother look like when you’re in a bad situation? I believe that any good mother in difficult circumstances would put their child’s safety and best interests first. Like Jochebed, they’d be brave and protective, and if it means taking risks in order to try and give their child a chance in life and a future, they would. That is love! Not the fuzzy warm feelings you have or the gooey mess you’d turn into when a cute baby smiles at you, but the selfless things you’d do for a helpless child even if it costs you your very self.

My thoughts turn to all the mothers in recent years who have been separated from their children because of war, conflict, and difficult regimes of their countries. Perhaps like Jochobed, they know that there is only so much they can do in their own strength, and then pray that God would take care of their families. And we join with them in praying for peace and justice and for reunion of families.

“Let go, and let God”

I remember that in my late teens I went with my older sister to visit a friend in hospital  soon after she’d given birth to her child. This young Mum was clearly overjoyed having brought a beautiful baby into the world, but what I remember most clearly was her words, “I used to think with all the bad things that happen in the world, I wouldn’t want to bring a child into it. Yet here I am, and I’m very glad to have done it!”

Years later I understood the blessings of motherhood – the joy of watching your babies grow and learn, and how they develop their characters. I also understood quite early on that how you imagined it to be can be quite different to how it actually is. You can try and influence your children, but you can’t entirely control what they’ll do. All your best laid-out plans and efforts can suddenly be changed or discarded, and you just have to go with the flow. Or sometimes circumstances conspire against you. At such moments, it really is “let go, and let God”. And God has a habit of making something of what you surrender to Him. Just look at Moses!

Happy Mother’s Day!

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Mother’s Day Crafts

So last week I was thinking, what activity should I do with the children at Kids’ Club… Mothering Sunday is coming up, but it’s a week and a half away. Perhaps the usual making Mother’s Day cards and parcelling up a few fun-sized chocolates would be ideal. What Mum wouldn’t appreciate that? We’ve done that several times before, what could go wrong?

I cut out all the cards and folded them the right size, got boxes of fun-sized chocolates, found the colouring pens and pencils. Ah! And I’ve recently found some bargain mini  stamps and mini ink pads from Hobbycraft. That brought back happy memories of me as a little girl stamping all over to make pretty pictures (or so I thought anyway) – so easy and quick, and nowadays you can get so many bright colours.

Well, it turned out to be a most stress-inducing session (for the leaders anyway)! There was ink oozing out everywhere as the children pressed on the ink pads. (In the old days, you’d be right to press hard on the pads to try and get a good bit of ink, as they tended to be dry.) Somehow there was ink on the table, all over the cards, on their hands, on their clothes (sorry parents!), and we’d done well not to have ink all over the leaders too.

This week after the event, I thought, whether it would have made any difference if I had tried it at home first. I usually do a trial run of all the activities to make sure it works, and assess whether it’s suitable for my group. Here you can see, it needn’t have made too much of a mess, but then again, I didn’t attack the ink pads like I would do if I were 6 or 7 years old. Lesson learned! Steer clear of mess-inducing paint or ink if you don’t want to have a lot of cleaning up to do. The kids would’ve been happy with just colouring pens and pencils anyway, and it would have left us with more time to make the other thing too. But if you really want to paint or do messy craft, then perhaps some disposable table cloths would be helpful and have some wet wipes to hand.

The “other thing” we made was using paper napkins to parcel up a few fun-sized chocolates as a gift for the mums. You can usually buy a large pack of paper napkins from supermarkets quite cheaply. I also found some bargain lilac raffia ribbon for the job.

Tie a label tag to the parcel. Write “To Mum, love from…” and there you have it!

We also did a story in the session, but that’s for another post

Happy Mother’s Day!